It is kind of difficult for me to write about mourning at this time, but it is something that most of us, or more likely all of us, will eventually have to go through. Although many religions may have very ritualistic aspects within the mourning stage of someone’s death, it is first and foremost a period of time in which, usually, feelings are released. Mourning doesn’t necessarily have to be a religious act, rather I would say that in general it would be considered a social one. But we must look at those cultures that do incorporate mourning into their religion and turn into something more ritualistic.
According to Brown’s piece on the practices of mourning within the Han dynasty there are a lot of things that occur when a person dies. There is a term that the Hans use, sangli, that “seems to evoke much of our common sense of mourning as the ceremonial expression of sadness at death or loss.” This is one of the reasons we know that the period of mourning is universal across the world, save for a the different and sometimes very specific ways that people of certain cultures decide to mourn. The Han have a “chief mourner” who ends up being the one to endure the most since they are the ones given the task of figuring out the interment for the deceased. Due to their strong belief in filial piety, this chief mourner tends to be the eldest son of the person who has passed away. And going off of that, it was pointed out by Brown that generally it was only the men who must really undergo all of these mourning rituals, and not just men but those men who belonged to the higher social classes only. Rarely did you see women doing the same kind of thing. After the soul-calling and a three-day period, in which the family and friends of the deceased waited in the hopes that the person wasn’t actually dead and could come back to life, the burial and mourning practices began. Like I had mentioned, it was during this period of time when the chief mourner decided how the body would be buried, and then he would continue his own personal mourning for about another three years, sometimes longer. In the reading it was not difficult to identify how mourning, even in ancient China, has a social aspect to it. It was very interesting to read about and realize how the different dimensions in Chinese culture affected the way in which the members of the Han dynasty were able to mourn.